10 February 2010

First and foremost, in the beginning, i wanna wish two of my gud frens, minghooi n khenghooi, a very very happy birthday for their 22 year old and 21 year old...

minghooi, i tried to fon u jz now but u din answer me.. i guess, u slept ady rite? quite a long time no contact with u ady.. mayb u ady forget abt me? @@ anyway, i dun think so la... knw u since standard 1 or 2 ady... u impossible to forget me as well.. we used to be so fren, argue, "gay" etc b4.. rite? anyway, hope can see u again la in this coming cny holiday..

khenghooi, tis feler i knw coz of WFC May 2009... tat time i still duno who is khenghooi actualy.. jz knw tat u r wfc stage manager.. but since entering src, i knw u better lor.. n knw tat u are quite a fei person oso... hehe..

Well, today... no i shud said yesterday, coz ady over 12am ady... was not a gud day.. but actualy the recent days also not...

argueing btw frens.. misunderstanding.. n also sum of the childish mind of sum1... i dunno why there is a person who cannot think for other ppl.. jz thinking of own advantage... i can understnd if it is a kid.. but it is not.. mayb the sum1 is jz playful, ya.. a playful fren is a great one, but in doing the important thg or serious thg, jz hope tat evy1 will reli serious on it... not reli serious la, but at least, see the problem/issue from evyone's view.. hv to think for other oso..

for example, yaa, the car parking in the campus, there are a lot of my frens complaint abt it... "u all no do work one ar... my course even 1 car park oso dn get it.." come on... it is the carpark open for whole campus student knw.. the whole campus got 3000+ students, 1000 apply, n jz 130 get it... jz think, if u get the carpark, other ppl oso will complain oso rite... jz not to think abt own ok? it is randomly picked by the computer n this is the fairest choice for the limited space of carpark... we can do nth... except those staying nearer one, please, dun apply for the car park, utilise the public/uni bus, giv the chances of car park for those ppl staying further..ok?

but, i dun think tat those "drivers" will think like tis..

ok, the nex thg... sumtime we hv to aware of our own mistake... try to look ourselves from 3rd party view... try to think, if i was jz an outsider n got other ppl behave like me, what would i think... will i agree with him? or will i dulan him?

Fren? wat is a fren? ya, fren is the one tat will offer us help whenever we nid... n oso the one we will help them whenever they need us... fren no nid a lot of chatting... but it is understanding..
but, if a fren claimed tat he/she is ur fren, but he/she nvr thinking of ur side... n nvr understnd abt the condition... how would it be?

cny is coming... i still rmbr last time maybe few years ago, there is an tv advertisment abt cny... it goes like tis... a family are eating with the table is full... but there are new ppl coming, so how? ya, they jz add the chairs n let them join the dinner...

i heard sum1 said b4, chinese table vy nice, compared to western rectangle table... n i think it is true oso... coz the chinese round table, there is no restriction on hw many ppl can enter it.. as long as it can be fitted... but the rectangle table, it is a rectangle one... those who sit at the corner, is vy weird n will feel like being ignored and there is no any "qin qie gan"...

the previous two paragraphs show tat i wont hv any comment of a full table with extra no matter hw many person... as long as everyone hv the space... sit nearer, maa got more mesra niaa lor... as we celebrated my coursemate koksheng bday, imagine, our table with abt 13 ppl... n dongjing table is not tat big oso... but, fren maa... wat the problem...

but, fren is fren.. and when doing the decision of sum important issue.. which would relate to other parties.. we cant juz judge sumthg or decide sumthg coz of the word fren... we hv to be fair to evy1... n i hope tat evy1 will understd abt it...

recently jz watched a video quite meaningful...
try to imagine, if let u enter a jungle full of danger, and u are allowed to bring one animal, which one will u giv up 1st (arrange in order from the 1st u will giv up til the last one to be wit u)?

Tiger, peacock, dog, elephant, n monkey...

what will u all choose??


my 1st time watch the video, i choose peacock, ya... coz it is useless for me... i admit tat... n i knw tat i made the wrong decision... y? try to check it out urself...

jz nw IJM QS Tan phoned me to ask abt futsal... but i rejected him coz having steamboat with utar staff... erm.. thn he told me tat my supervisor will go to india nex month... go there for working... erm... hope tat he will success n fulfil his dream laa... since last time during my internship, he keep saying tat go india work can earn a lot and cum bek can becum construction manager ady... hope tat he can reli do tat...

last but not least, jz now, my sis fon me.. n brg me a sudden news... it is not sudden ady actualy... jz, we wont expect it to be happened NOW... it is reli a bad news for the family.. altho evy1 ady prepare for it... LAK GU (my 6th uncle) have leaved us.. his laughing, smiling, n big voice wont be appearing anymore... i think, my mum stil duno abt tis news yet.. coz she maybe sleep ady when he past away.. so they decided not to let the siblings of my mum, including her, knw abt tis news yet... the last time i saw him is during cny oso... he was always a cheerful person... he was always laughing, no matter any event, anywhere, there would be laughing voice if he was there.. i m using the word "was"... is it mean tat he was a past tense ady? wont, i wont be forgetting him forever... without him, i think, coz he was one of the closest sibling of my mum... n thus he quite look after n tek gud care of us also...

LAK GU.. i will miss u forever.. n i believe tat the whole khor family will also miss u...

Life is so short.. any1 can go at anytime... imagine, if today is ur last day, wat would u do?

hope tat there is no regret in life.. and gud nite evy1...



gud person will go to heaven, is it true?